Winners of Blog Writing Competition - Her Voice Matters Special Feature.
Thought Lantern recently organized its first Blog Writing Competition, and the topic for this competition was Her Voice Matters. Once again, our winners have shown why it is necessary to blend talent together and create a spark in front of the world.
Here are some of the best blogs by our winners.
1st Winner - Dr. Arwa Saifi.
She, in this society ruled by norms of Patriarchy, exists along with him,
Yet her voice, opinions are often pressed down under the name of being polite.
Respectful and well-behaved girl as the onus of keeping the name, respect, and tradition,
The family alive rests upon her two shoulders.
She has seen how her mother was timid and submissive, how her eyes were shown when wrong,
It has been pointed out and said you are born only to obey and not to question and argue decisions taken.
By Men of the house, every her of the family will have a story, a tale when she heard or saw this visual being,
Played each day as a repeat telecast.
Whenever a stare at her is being revolting, blame comes back, how was she dressed, why a step from within the,
Four walls of this house were taken by the stare of the unwanted touch at inappropriate places, those fingers around her,
Body left her in fear, traumatized and shaken, yet her story is not heard, her voice is silenced once again.
Her voice will have an audience, but only these patterns of her upbringing are broken; she stands for herself.
3rd Winner Sujata Maggoo.
“Didi, how was day 1?” she asked casually. Shree nodded, not sure if she could divulge more. “Didi, can I tell you something, if you don’t mind?” she asked, looking intently at Shree. “Go on,” said Shree and put her book down, looking at her carefully.
“Didi, you look highly qualified and yet, you got married into a joint family, taking up all the work from day 1. Set up your boundaries from this day, else, you will be caught in a whirlpool from where you can never come back,” said Kusum casually as she went about her work, lest Mummyji notices that she has been chatting.
Shree was surprised because even when she left home to arrive here, her mother hadn’t advised her about boundaries. After all, her mother knew nothing about it herself. And here, of all the family members around, it is Kusum who treated her as her own, even though they were neither related nor on the same level. Why did she say that, wondered Shree and got back to her phone.
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Three decades later, as Shree played back the same scene in her mind again, she knew how right Kusum was. Her voice DID matter, but Shree hadn’t cared to bother about it. It took her years to come out of that toxic environment, and it was painful as the nightmares continued to haunt her. She worked hard to be seen and heard, but even her husband refused to side with her. All that was left now was a bag full of negativity, failed opportunities, frustration, and anger. Sometimes, we don’t hear the voices we should, letting them trail away to oblivion, and we continue to pay the price for years together. Thank God, times have changed, thought Shree. Women now have a voice and one THAT WILL BE HEARD. Her daughter will never go through what she had to years ago. What a relief! That one act of moving out made all the difference that she had taken so long to see.
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